My hardest post

[paulcXRV]

Still shocked and speechless , very very sad thing to happen to anyone and so quick too.
I will be at the ace revving bike at 12 with all the others from XRV for her Nick.
Be strong Nick it will get less painfull over time but will always be there on reflection.

[Whealie]

There will be a few of us at the Ace cafe on Saturday to rev engine at midday for Nick's wife. There are also groups meeting at Abergavenny and at Jelly's cafe (the Yonderman). Everyone and anyone is welcome.
http://www.xrv.org.uk/forums/meet-ups-r ... -wife.html

[doctorzippy]

I've been away from the forum for a while and this was the first post I'd read for ages.

Now I can't see past the tears to read any more.

My deepest, sincerest sympathies.

Take joy from the small things and life will slowly rebuild itself. Allow the tears to flow and rejoice in the memories of happier times.

All the best.

[yoda]

Theres never really much you can say to help with anything as bad as this.

Pleased you have family around you at this time.

The Missus and my best wishes to you.

[GOG 007]

I have started this thread in case it is missed in this one.

http://www.adventurebikerider.com/forum ... -wife.html

[DogManStar]

I may only be a newbie but I hope these words give you some comfort


The Dash
by Linda Ellis copyright 1996

I read of a man who stood to speak
at the funeral of a friend.
He referred to the dates on her tombstone,
from the beginning…to the end.

He noted that first came the date of her birth
and spoke of the following date with tears,
but he said what mattered most of all
was the dash between those years.

For that dash represents all the time
that she spent alive on earth.
And now only those who loved her
know what that little line is worth.

For it matters not, how much we own,
the cars…the house…the cash.
What matters is how we live and love
and how we spend our dash.

So, think about this long and hard.
Are there things you’d like to change?
For you never know how much time is left
that can still be rearranged.

If we could just slow down enough
to consider what’s true and real
and always try to understand
the way other people feel.

And be less quick to anger
and show appreciation more
and love the people in our lives
like we’ve never loved before.

If we treat each other with respect
and more often wear a smile,
remembering that this special dash
might only last a little while.

So, when your eulogy is being read,
with your life’s actions to rehash…
would you be proud of the things they say
about how you spent YOUR dash?

[Paul]

So so sorry to hear your news, you are all in our prayers.

Paul & Maria

[johnzxr750]

Sorry to hear of your loss my condolences
J

[Tom94]

I cant even begin to imagine how you feel, very sorry to hear such a thing, much deepest sympathys.

[Lizzie]

Will be thinking of you tomorrow and hope that all goes as well as it can on such a difficult day.
Jane & Steve (Mr Toad)