As said...modern diesel cars are not suitable for pottering about on short journeys.
I don't know if any of the pour-in products work. You can buy electronic tools that enable you to force a 'hot' regen if the car won't do it on its own.
A very important, and often misunderstood point is that using the wrong engine oil will quickly clog the DPF with metallic ash that cannot be removed with thermally. Modern oil has a lot more than oil in it, and one of the things it contains is zinc dialkyldithiophosphate (aka ZDDP). This is designed to decompose at higher engine temperatures and its components form an anti-wear coating on components such as cams. The coating is wiped off by rockers etc, and then reforms.
And there's the problem. All engines have residual oil on the bore, left by the descending piston, which gets burned in the combustion stroke. The metallic elements in ZDDP are caught in the exhaust stream then accumulate as ash on the ceramic filter. Eventually they partially fill the filter, leaving little room for soot and causing a massive increase in backpressure! Unlike soot, they don't burn.
Engine manufacturers now specify what are called Low or Mid SAPS (sulphated ash, phosphate and sulphur) oils, which contain less ZDDP and more of other non-metallic anti-wear additives for DPF-equipped engines. If these oils are used, the ash doesn't build up so fast, but many garages and car owners don't understand this and use the 'wrong' oil.
If you are interested (someone must be) there's an article in the December 2020 Transport Engineer that you can download here
http://www.transportengineer.org.uk/tra ... -magazine/
Can't think who wrote it...